Basak, 33, opted for a Maxi Bustier dress with gucci leather bombs duration of an intimate civil ceremony on the front or 15 guests on March 29 at the Takney City Council.
After marrying his partner, Goksu, 33, the newlyweds shared photos and videos of his big day on Tiktok, but Basak says he received a reaction for his choice of dress.
He decided to wear a dress with the straps and the top of the cups of a visible black bra on the neckline, since he felt it was “elegant.”
But the strangers were quick to comment, calling their “sticky”, “garbage” and “unpleasant” outfit that Basak said his feeling “harassed.”
Basak, who lives in Hackney, said: “I only had 200 followers at the time.
“A couple of people began to write that there is something wrong with my dress.
“At first I was very, very surprised.
“I didn’t think anyone commented on the dress.
“People said you can’t use black for your wedding, they [wedding dresses] They are white for a reason.
“They mainly said that my bra was showing and revealing: they said it was inappropriate.
“It is not suitable for a wedding.” Some people said “Have you dressed in the dark?”
“He was comfortable and felt like me.”
Basak bought her High Street brand wedding dress because Alice for £ 130 because she wanted to feel unique and had it in others.
The day Basak says that “he felt incredible” and added: “I felt very good the day and then took the photos and felt so much joy.
“I was surprised, I didn’t expect that violent reaction.
“It never happened to my mind that someone would not love my dress or say unpleasant things about my dress.”
With the couple to have a great wedding in Milan, Italy, in July 2025, the bride “did not want to spend thousands.”
She excited some fragments of her online civil ceremony and quickly received almost 200,000 visits, but “bothered” in the comments section.
“They were mostly anonymous users,” Basak said.
“They said they hated our gaze, because it was black and secondly because the bra was showing.
“The majority of people who say these theses have the right to have an opinion, but does not mean that you can make hurtful comments to others.
“It was upset at the beginning, but after publishing a follow -up video on how I felt intimidated more positive vibrations and people defended me.
“Most people say ‘are incredible’, ‘You look elegant’, ‘They don’t understand the style’.
“It’s fun a bit in a certain sense: Internet is a fun place.
“I don’t care what people think.”
The family and friends “loved” Basak’s dress that day.
She added: “They said it was ‘so you’.
“One has just said ‘I sent your photo to one of my closest friends and it was the best dress in history.’
“Everyone exceptions these people online, because they know me and my personal style.
“My only advice [to other brides] It would not matter what others think if it makes you happy. ”
